Sharon“sometimes it can be overwhelming... I get really anxious because I want to do it right”Task-dump overload + can't ask -> anxiety
Sharon“if you tell me what I'm doing wrong, I will literally go anxious... makes me less motivated”Criticism demotivates her
Sharon“I'm kind of aimless on what I'm supposed to be posting... If I don't have a funnel, I just feel a little aimless”Aimless without a funnel
Sharon“it can't be me”The work can't be her
Sharon“I want to give her one last option... the girl's been through a lot”Unreliable VA she won't cut
Sharon“he gets upset if I make calls from home... that won't work”Work bleeding into home/husband
Sharon“I'm just visual... I need a flow chart”Can't yet SEE the marketing pattern
Sharon“you're not doing the sales calls... if you were it would be done already”Sales-call avoidance stalling data
Sharon“It's just manual. Yes, it's manual.”Everything still manual
Sharon“they're not replying because it was such a distance of time”Stalled cold on 600 comments
Kristin“I keep getting messages... that I owe money... everything that I do is wrong”Debt pings drive shame spiral
Kristin“I keep having to convince people to do this thing... and I know I don't”Feels she must "convince"
Kristin“I really look for that ready to run... and that's not what's happening”Leads won't move / not "ready to run"
Kristin“I know a lot of the people... I really want to get people that I don't know”Only pitches people she knows
Kristin“lack of routine... always behind... acting in fear”Doing the work but in fear / no routine
Kristin“[metrics] never a strong suit”Metrics never a strong suit
Kristin“I have to put a hundred people through... substantial numbers”Ego needs big numbers to be valid
Kristin“It is a pity party... I don't want to go down there anymore”Names the pity party, can't leave it
Kristin“what I used to say... isn't what I should be saying anymore”Disassociated from offer; old words dead
Kristin“this is where I'm getting messed up... right in front of me”Can't state her deliverables
Kristin“I like clam up and then I don't know how to say it”Clams up on calls
Kristin“I'm doing that even too soon... I think I'm scaring them”Connects too fast / out of sequence
Kristin“so many pages... how do I make this natural”Framework overwhelming / not natural
Kristin“a lot of times I'll just go, okay, we'll do this one... I need to slow down”Caves instantly on objections
Sara“I only get like one... I had to submit that already”One QR code, nowhere to point it
Sara“That's sort of what I'm trying to figure out”CTA unsettled
Sara“that's not what they wanted... I need to update that”Old "make money with your book" headline wrong
Sara“I feel better. I think I need to keep practicing”Can't deliver the pitch with authority
Sara“what should my table present?”Doesn't know what the table should present
Sara“are those four boxes still good?”Poll boxes vague / not results-oriented
Sara“where is that information? That's valuable... which one won? No, I don't know”Collected poll data twice, never analyzed it
Sara“I don't get to be on stage at this one yet... we don't invite people we don't know”Gatekept off the stage
Sara“my VA told me the 191,400 and I didn't get the rest”Hero stat lives in her VA's head
Sara“they are exactly going to be like that”Audience recoils from "100k views"
Sara“how do I track this... everybody who comes through this link”Commission/attribution tracking unclear
Sara“my husband doesn't know you”Husband not bought in
WhatsApp group“my throat is closing up. I'm getting shaky... ride or die... so much pressure”Kristin: physical shutdown at money talk
WhatsApp group“three times a day... go through it”Kristin: over-preparing instead of reps
WhatsApp group“I can only do one of the two things... I just don't know what to do at this point”Melissa: too many tasks, needs direction
WhatsApp group“StreamYard... 46 a month... 150 followers... standstill”Melissa: tooling barriers block the live
WhatsApp group“I'm getting tired we'll see what I can all get done today”Sara: low capacity for the launch
Melissa“she was all over the board... It didn't even point her in a direction”Quiz scores all over the board, give no direction
Melissa“she wanted to choose two answers... It depends. It depends on if...”"It depends" questions, reader wanted 2 answers
Melissa“I have to remember where they are. Sarah does all this stuff”Cannot find her own data; outsourced to Sarah
Melissa“I just know the data that I see with how many people watch it”Does not know her audience
Melissa“What did I miss? ... what am I doing over and over and over?”6+ scattered offers, no core
Yvonne“I still feel a little bit lost... I need to have it all where I can just reach for it.”Feels lost / disorganized / overwhelmed
Yvonne“I haven't gotten any conversations.”No conversations = no income (the bottleneck)
Yvonne“in my mind, I'm telling myself I don't.”Tells herself she cannot create conversations
Yvonne“I don't want to be that person... more relational than transactional.”Fear of being pushy / salesy (identity)
Yvonne“it's probably fear of rejection.”Fear of rejection
Yvonne“I felt rope-a-doped... I'm just livid.”Rope-a-dope resentment toward past coaches (TRAUMA)
Yvonne“We weren't allowed... I don't ask questions because that is stuck in there.”Cannot ask questions — childhood conditioning (TRAUMA)
Yvonne“children should be seen and not heard... No, I'm afraid.”Fear of phone / "seen not heard" (TRAUMA)
Yvonne“at that point, my mind goes blank.”Mind goes blank / freeze
Women Supporting Women“I know that I have to do the, the outreaches. I have not been. I didn't update you guys again.”the unmade ask, named by the operator herself
Women Supporting Women“And I kind of thought that was a bit of a pipe dream, but the more I'm seeing it, the more I'm realizing.”the dream disowned as fantasy
Women Supporting Women“there's so many downloads and so much vision coming to me... I'm not going to get distracted.”the idea-flood as a substitute for the one action
Women Supporting Women“I don't understand. Like it says it's recording and then I go to look for it and I can't find it.”the loop that was never a compliance problem
Women Supporting Women“I have no idea how many contacts I have made... All I know is that by noon on the first day of the conference I had already had four amazing conversations and it's just continued since then. So honestly I haven't kept track.”the top performer does not measure
Workshop call“I don't feel scared of starting a workshop. I just... One of the part of the thing is I want to do it right, so I'm saying, should I start one in August, and is that okay?”not scared, just 'want to do it right'
Workshop call“I know, but it's hard for me to do them on my own. ... if you do it with me, I can do it. Yes, to do it by myself, I would struggle. ... tell me the dates and I will go on and I will help you.”can't initiate the proven asset alone
Conference call“there's that piece in me that is not. easy. I of being seen, but of being successful and thereby rejecting like everything from my past or like, I just felt like when I was a kid, I would succeed at something. And then my parents would distance themselves from me. ... but I think there was something in me that was still super scared.”the fear of being seen/successful -- OWNED
Conference call“why a few weeks ago was I so at this extreme of like wanting to quit? You know, like what was going on with all of that? ... I'm excited and terrified.”the wobble to the edge of quitting
Sharon · dream“If we could do the mini chat... buy you a couple more days”Automated funnel, off manual
Sharon · dream“she asked if the course could be run as a small group... I would be willing to have a little call”Bigger-ticket revenue (speaking/groups)
Sharon · dream“find somebody else... it can't be me”A dream reliable team member
Sharon · dream“do it when he tells me to... so I have grace”Work that fits a life of grace
Sharon · dream“I need a flow chart”To finally SEE it / breakthrough
Kristin · dream“I really want to fill monetize... get that group up and running”Fill Monetize / launch her group
Kristin · dream“Strategy doesn't light me up... I help them uncover their blind spots”Do the blind-spot work that lights her up
Kristin · dream“I'm allowed to reinvent myself at any time... that hasn't been working”Permission to reinvent herself
Kristin · dream“draw the line in the cement... whether I know them or not”Rip the band-aid, commit to the framework
Kristin · dream“capture what I do... so you guys can coach me”Be capturable / coachable
Sara · dream“the map to be in front of 100,000 people by the end of the year”In front of 100,000 people by year-end
Sara · dream“once we hit a million, then you're down to 5%”Scale to 90K months / million tier
Sara · dream“they want their message heard by more people”Clients' message heard by more people
Sara · dream“they feel validated... they're obeying God fully”Clients feel validated / obeying God fully
Sara · dream“point everybody to one place”One system everything feeds
Sara · dream“get to know me... So get to know me”Become known / earn the stage
WhatsApp group · dream“how can we train our egos to take different actions... overcome the fear”Kristin: fully step into Courageous Destiny
Melissa · dream“just interpret the information for them and then try to make it clear”Interpret the quiz FOR people
Melissa · dream“doing some prospecting while I'm out”Sarah runs DMs while she is off-grid
Yvonne · dream“more relational than transactional”Warm relational selling, not transactional
Yvonne · dream“be the adult”Speak up and be the adult
Yvonne · dream“(peel next layer of the vision)”Live her vision / peel the next layer
Women Supporting Women · dream“one of my dreams is to just make five, $10,000 a month and not have to, you know... I'm not always trading my time for money.”$5-10k/mo that does not trade time for money
Women Supporting Women · dream“if I had 20 people sharing Women Supporting Women in their networks, plus being able to offer that coursework... all of this different residual income that doesn't trade time for money. And all of the infrastructure is already there in Circle.”the advisor network as a residual engine -- infrastructure already built
Women Supporting Women · dream“a lot of people just looking to me now as the person, which was sort of the whole goal. And so it's really super fun.”to be looked to as THE person -- and it happened
Workshop call · dream“Yes, I agree. I just like to make some money sooner rather than later.”some money sooner rather than later
Conference call · dream“going into this conference, I could just say, this is where I belong.”this is where I belong